I think it’s fair to say that we all wish we could have the opportunity to have a do-over. We all have regrets that we look back on, wishing we handled situations differently. To put it simply, it is impossible to go back in time… You can never re-do a first impression (hence first). But, it’s important to remember that you always have the opportunity to start new; Every day. Every morning, you are given a chance for a do-over. No, situations in our lives can never be “un-done”, however, they can be “re-done. “The difference between the two comparisons is so significantly obvious, that people tend to overlook its meaning. Look at the term un-done and then think about how this compares with the term re-done… When analyzing the term re-done, you can imagine that we all have the chance to recreate a better version of ourselves every morning, or even every hour. Although you cannot go back in time and change what has happened, you can take these mistakes or regrets and use them to transform into a better version of your future self.
Learn from bad decisions, relationships and friendships. Learn from words that you once spoke, and now regret. It is important to analyze how you could have (and maybe should have) handled a situation more maturely or gracefully. Through this reflection, you allow yourself to move forward as an improved human being. Do not under estimate the importance when one says that you are “constantly evolving”; You are. You can think of something that you’d like to change about yourself and make small strides, day in and day out, towards that desired you. Stop looking back at what you’d change in the past, and start thinking about the things you would like to start improving on in the future. You have the chance for a do-over, every morning. You are continuously blooming into better version of you. Every morning is a new opportunity for a fresh bloom.
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